How to attract love into your life or refresh your marriage? Romance formula in Feng Shui.
Once I had a telephone call. It was a female client who told me about the assumptions that husband was unfaithful to her. She asked me urgently to visit her and tell what was wrong in the house from the viewpoint of Feng Shui. When I came and started to inspect the environment I found out that an unusual collection of beautiful blooming plants was situated in the sector of her husband’s Flower of Romance (it was a large spacious living room). It seemed that they’ve just burst into blossom… It turned out that that my client was abroad and visited an exhibition of plants where she acquired these nice plants. The result was not slow to arrive 🙂
Love and marriage is one of the most popular subjects of Feng Shui consultations. Everybody wishes to have a good marriage, mutual love and happily relations. Unfortunately it’s not always that we get what we want, especially when we let matters take care of themselves. In this case Feng Shui experts actively use BaZi chart of a person (Four Pillars of Destiny), where they find information on the potential opportunities of relationship, marriage, etc. By knowing about personal potential and lucky cycles a human can be more conscious in relationships and, being aware of the weaknesses a person is able to minimize unpleasant situations. It is always important to understand that there are several different options of the scenario and much depends on our own actions.
Potential of your own personal space, namely the house or apartment where you live, may be used as one of the most efficient ways to attract love into your life and strengthen the existing relationships. If you wish to harmonize personal space to establish romantic relation you should make three simple steps:
- At first you should find out a year of your birth according to Chinese calendar. Do it using the date from the table below, that was specially prepared for you:
| Year of birth | Beginning of the year | Totem animal of the year | Flower of Romance | Romance Formula for those who are not married | Romance Formula for those who are married |
| 1950 | 04.02 | Metal Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1951 | 04.02 | Metal Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1952 | 05.02 | Water Dragon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1953 | 04.02 | Water Snake | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1954 | 04.02 | Wood Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1955 | 04.02 | Wood Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1956 | 05.02 | Fire Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1957 | 04.02 | Fire Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1958 | 04.02 | Earth Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1959 | 04.02 | Earth Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1960 | 05.02 | Metal Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1961 | 04.02 | Metal Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1962 | 04.02 | Water Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1963 | 04.02 | Water Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1964 | 05.02 | Wood Dragon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1965 | 04.02 | Wood Snake | South-2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1966 | 04.02 | Fire Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1967 | 04.02 | Fire Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1968 | 05.02 | Earth Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1969 | 04.02 | Earth Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1970 | 04.02 | Metal Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1971 | 04.02 | Metal Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1972 | 05.02 | Water Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1973 | 04.02 | Water Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1974 | 04.02 | Wood Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1975 | 04.02 | Wood Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1976 | 05.02 | Fire Dragoon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1977 | 04.02 | Fire Snake | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1978 | 04.02 | Earth Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1979 | 04.02 | Earth Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1980 | 05.02 | Metal Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1981 | 04.02 | Metal Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1982 | 04.02 | Water Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1983 | 04.02 | Water Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1984 | 04.02 | Wood Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1985 | 04.02 | Wood Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1986 | 04.02 | Fire Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1987 | 04.02 | Fire Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1988 | 04.02 | Earth Dragoon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1989 | 05.02 | Earth Snake | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1990 | 04.02 | Metal Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1991 | 04.02 | Metal Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1992 | 04.02 | Water Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1993 | 04.02 | Water Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1994 | 04.02 | Wood Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1995 | 04.02 | Wood Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1996 | 04.02 | Fire Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1997 | 04.02 | Fire Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 1998 | 04.02 | Earth Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 1999 | 04.02 | Earth Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2000 | 04.02 | Metal Dragoon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2001 | 04.02 | Metal Snake | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2002 | 04.02 | Water Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2003 | 04.02 | Water Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2004 | 04.02 | Wood Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2005 | 04.02 | Wood Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2006 | 04.02 | Fire Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2007 | 04.02 | Fire Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2008 | 04.02 | Earth Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2009 | 04.02 | Earth Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2010 | 04.02 | Metal Tiger | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2011 | 04.02 | Metal Rabbit | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2012 | 04.02 | Water Dragon | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2013 | 03.02 | Water Snake | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2014 | 04.02 | Wood Horse | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2015 | 04.02 | Wood Goat | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2016 | 04.02 | Fire Monkey | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2017 | 03.02 | Fire Rooster | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2018 | 04.02 | Earth Dog | East – 2 | Metal vase, one third of which is filled with water | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2019 | 04.02 | Earth Pig | North – 2 | Green plant or tree: Lyre-shaped ficus, indoor Avocado or Olive tree | Furniture item (cupboard, wardrobe, wall unit or sideboard) + family photo |
| 2020 | 04.02 | Metal Rat | West – 2 | Cut-glass water filled with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
| 2021 | 03.02 | Metal Ox | South-2 | Bouquet of nine fresh-cut red roses or pink peonies in glass vase with water | Cut-glass water with no water |
- Find in the table the “Flower of Romance” corresponding to your year of birth.
- Using compass (ordinary touristic compass will suit) determine in your house the degree corresponding to your Flower of Romance (for example, South-2, West-2, North-2 or East-2). Measurements have to be made from the center of the apartment or room.
- Now, when you know your personal sector of Romance, you should activate it to work for you. The advices how to manage it are given in the table above, depending on the year of your birth.
How does Romance Formula works?
However, before activating your love and romance you should get to know that this formula has the other side of the coin. As a rule this concerns those who are married or have stable relationships. If you use this activation excessively or without in-depth knowledge – you can provoke marital infidelity. Therefore the Romance Formula for marries couples has another specifics and in is shown in the Table in a separate column.
Below you could find a list of a few measures that will help you to avoid accidental activation of the Flower of Romance.
- Bedroom is very important for marriage therefore make sure that the outdoor environment has no objects which bring inauspicious energy – electricity transmitting poles, standing water (bog), etc. The bedroom should also not have any blossoming home plants or other greenery.
- Before using Romance Formula take into consideration the Flowers of Romans of other family members. For instance, if you take into account just your data and ignore the Flower of Romance and Romance Formula of your husband then, being unaware, you can create love triangle. In one article it’s impossible to tell you about all existing techniques and recommendations to prevent undesirable effects. Moreover individual data should be analyzed – each relationship is different and each member of the family has an impact on general microclimate. Therefore we cannot guarantee that just putting a certain item from the Table in the proper sector you will get all desirable changes exactly as you wish them. Unfortunately or luckily there is no one universal recipe for happiness that will help anyone. That’s why Feng Shui consultant “digs” deeper and makes more detailed and complicated calculations taking into consideration a plenty of individual factors and peculiarities.
How Romance Formula can assist you in business?
Nowadays Romance Formula can help you to boost sales when you interact with other people. Those, who are engaged in marketing and sales sphere as well as show business and creative work, can use this formula in their activities. It will help to attract more popularity, clients and sales. If you are lonely and wish to find new friends then you can also apply this formula.
Do you have children in the house… What impact does the Romance Formula have on children?
At home it’s better to activate Romance sector in the reading room, library, study room or children’s room. For a child the activation of Romance Formula means that he can become more popular and most probably the child will enjoy the time spent at school and with friends. You need to be careful if your child is a teenager.
Be cautious…
- If the outdoor surroundings have the following destructive objects in the Romance sector: high or diseased trees, electricity transmission lines, reservoir with standing water, etc.
- If somebody of family members in the house has any kind of unhealthy addictions;
Does the Romance Formula always work?
Not always and not in any circumstances. In order to achieve desired effect you should took into consideration the other factors such as destiny, luckiness cycle, etc. – all such factors can contribute to the result. Nevertheless even application of the Formula shows excellent results in many cases. We all know that even a flower will not blossom it does not get enough water, sun and care. The same with family and personal relationships – that are fragile, well-timed per each person and beautiful when fed by our energy. We take care of the family the same way as we look after the flower, without giving a thought to the value of this work. From day to day we just observe the growth of our creation. It becomes more beautiful and harmonious and we feel more happiness.
Love and be loved!
Natalia Zhuravel
